Today, one in every three marriages in the US ends up in a divorce. India is not far behind. People seek help when the family is already falling apart. Selfishness and inability to compromise seem to be the key reasons why families crumble. People expect the family and its members to live life in a certain manner based on their own pre-conceived notions. This could be disastrous for families and the society at large, if people fail to see the family as an embodiment of spirituality, where each one respects the other and helps the other grow. In order to have your ideal family, it is imperative to take some time to design it the way you as a family would want it and define the family values that you live with and perpetuate it. I believe this is every citizen